How do you explain that not being optimistic is not equal to being pessimistic, but realistic?
How do you explain that not being happy always is not equal to being depressed, but realistic?
How do you explain that not having opinions matching to yours is not equal to being crazy, but real me?
How do you explain that not enjoying large crowds or social gatherings always is not equal to being unsocial, but real me?
How do you explain that not being able to see silver lining in everything is not equal to being negative, but realistic?